After lots of searching, I realized this, this not about the theme, it is all about style. Shame on me. So now, because of opening this question, I answer my question.
Firstly you must define what you want
int[] attrs = {R.attr.color_1, R.attr.color_2, R.attr.color_3, R.attr.color_4};
and then you can get them by index
TypedArray ta = holder.itemView.getContext().obtainStyledAttributes(R.style.AppTheme_Pink, attrs);
ViewHelpers.Companion.changeBackgroundSolidColor(holder.color1ImageView, ta.getColor(0, Color.GRAY));
ViewHelpers.Companion.changeBackgroundSolidColor(holder.color2ImageView, ta.getColor(1, Color.GRAY));
ViewHelpers.Companion.changeBackgroundSolidColor(holder.color3ImageView, ta.getColor(2, Color.GRAY));
ViewHelpers.Companion.changeBackgroundSolidColor(holder.color4ImageView, ta.getColor(3, Color.GRAY));
dont forget to recycler
ta.recycle();