With two JXTA based peers, each one behind its own NAT, is it possible for them to send direct messages to each other?
It is ok to use a rendezvous server for initial connection, but the real message with the payload needs to be sent directly from one peer to the other without a "gateway" on the internet.
I think Skype does that. I have heard about a trick using UDP instead of TCP. But does JXTA support that? Is it even possible with Java?