For a long time, when it comes to the microservice architecture, NATS and Kafka are the first options that come to my mind. But recently I found this gRPC template in dotnet core and that grasped my attention. I read a lot about it and watched a lot of videos but I don't think any of those could address gRPC correctly as they usually contrast between gRPC and message brokers or protocols such as REST which I guess is pretty inappropriate although SOAP would be relevant here. My assumption is that gRPC is a modern version of SOAP with better performance and less implementation hassle due to it protocol buffer. And I think that gRPC can by no means be compared against Kafka or NATS. And also that it cannot replace RESTful service as neither could SOAP.
Now, the question, to what extent are my assumptions true? For example, when it comes to selecting a communication bridge between nodes on a cluster, do I have to put gPRC among my options now (NATS, Kafkam Rabbit, etc) or should I consider that when creating a web proxy to bridge external request to my microservices?
Finally, how about real-time communication, can gRPC replace websocket/socket.io/signalR completely? What does it replace?