I finally understood why my car in unity can't drift/powerslide like cars do in other racing games. Feel free to skip the boring part and only read the question down below if you know this issue.
problem: Not realistic car grip/drift happens because tire slip value (from which the tire grip is evaluated) is separately measured for forward and sideways friction of wheel. This means that when you are in a turn with RWD car and you give car more throttle, rear tires lose forward grip and start to slip forward but car won't start to drift sideways like in reality because even though rear tires started slipping forward, sideways slip is still the same thus there will be no change on sideways friction curve and car will not lose any sideways grip. For the same reason cars with unity wheel colliders can't do handbrake turns because rear wheels will start to slip forward but that only influences forward grip not sideways.
real tire physics: From a physics standpoint it's obviously not realistic because when tire starts to slip it goes from static friction where it sits on road to kinetic friction where it is doing lots of little jumps and this "jumping state" of kinetic friction affects tire grip in all directions not just forward or sideways separately.
my theoretical solution: So the obvious solution would be that we can keep separated friction curves (because of different tire tread designs) but the slip value for these friction curves must be only one, evaluated as magnitude of vector2 of sideways and forward tire movement (slip). Unfortunately we can't modify slip value only extremum, asymptote and stiffness of friction curve.
finally the question: Is there something that I am missing with separated forward and sideways slips to make car drift realistically and if not, is there any workaround with friction curve parameters to fix this issue or can you suggest me some alternative wheel colliders which doesn't have this issue?
THX in advance :)