Assuming that you do not want to manually parse the string, you could try to use moment
library, which allows one to provide custom dateString patterns used for parsing the date, like demonstrated below
const dateString = '28.08.2020';
const date = moment(dateString, "DD.MM.YYYY");
console.log("date", date); // displayed zulu time might be different than your local timezone
console.log("milliseconds", date.valueOf());
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Please take a note that moment will accept the date in your local timezone, which may pose some issues. If you want to make up for it, you should look up moment-timezone
library