I faced the same issue...
Check my answer on this Delete / Destroy is not working in rails 3 with Jquery
If you are using Jquery not prototype then you need to add Jquery.rails.js in your project else everytime you try to delete anything it will take you to show page.
I dont remember from where I got the solution and this Jquery.rails.js file. But sure from some trust-able source.
Here is the code for that file. May be will help somebody.
jQuery(function ($) {
var csrf_token = $('meta[name=csrf-token]').attr('content'),
csrf_param = $('meta[name=csrf-param]').attr('content');
$.fn.extend({
/**
* Triggers a custom event on an element and returns the event result
* this is used to get around not being able to ensure callbacks are placed
* at the end of the chain.
*
* TODO: deprecate with jQuery 1.4.2 release, in favor of subscribing to our
* own events and placing ourselves at the end of the chain.
*/
triggerAndReturn: function (name, data) {
var event = new $.Event(name);
this.trigger(event, data);
return event.result !== false;
},
/**
* Handles execution of remote calls firing overridable events along the way
*/
callRemote: function () {
var el = this,
data = el.is('form') ? el.serializeArray() : [],
method = el.attr('method') || el.attr('data-method') || 'GET',
url = el.attr('action') || el.attr('href');
if (url === undefined) {
throw "No URL specified for remote call (action or href must be present).";
} else {
if (el.triggerAndReturn('ajax:before')) {
$.ajax({
url: url,
data: data,
dataType: 'script',
type: method.toUpperCase(),
beforeSend: function (xhr) {
el.trigger('ajax:loading', xhr);
},
success: function (data, status, xhr) {
el.trigger('ajax:success', [data, status, xhr]);
},
complete: function (xhr) {
el.trigger('ajax:complete', xhr);
},
error: function (xhr, status, error) {
el.trigger('ajax:failure', [xhr, status, error]);
}
});
}
el.trigger('ajax:after');
}
}
});
/**
* confirmation handler
*/
$('a[data-confirm],input[data-confirm]').live('click', function () {
var el = $(this);
if (el.triggerAndReturn('confirm')) {
if (!confirm(el.attr('data-confirm'))) {
return false;
}
}
});
/**
* remote handlers
*/
$('form[data-remote]').live('submit', function (e) {
$(this).callRemote();
e.preventDefault();
});
$('a[data-remote],input[data-remote]').live('click', function (e) {
$(this).callRemote();
e.preventDefault();
});
$('a[data-method]:not([data-remote])').live('click', function (e){
var link = $(this),
href = link.attr('href'),
method = link.attr('data-method'),
form = $('<form method="post" action="'+href+'">'),
metadata_input = '<input name="_method" value="'+method+'" type="hidden" />';
if (csrf_param != null && csrf_token != null) {
metadata_input += '<input name="'+csrf_param+'" value="'+csrf_token+'" type="hidden" />';
}
form.hide()
.append(metadata_input)
.appendTo('body');
e.preventDefault();
form.submit();
});
/**
* disable-with handlers
*/
var disable_with_input_selector = 'input[data-disable-with]';
var disable_with_form_selector = 'form[data-remote]:has(' + disable_with_input_selector + ')';
$(disable_with_form_selector).live('ajax:before', function () {
$(this).find(disable_with_input_selector).each(function () {
var input = $(this);
input.data('enable-with', input.val())
.attr('value', input.attr('data-disable-with'))
.attr('disabled', 'disabled');
});
});
$(disable_with_form_selector).live('ajax:after', function () {
$(this).find(disable_with_input_selector).each(function () {
var input = $(this);
input.removeAttr('disabled')
.val(input.data('enable-with'));
});
});
});