I have a parent div that displays a scrollable list of div elements. For first time users I want to grey out all the elements in the list and the parent div and leave only the first element displayed normally.
I've tried using box shadow but it only affects the background not the sibling or parents.
I've also looked a overlaying a grey opaque div but that would cover up the div I'm trying to highlight.
I've included a paintover screen grab of the html. It's too complicated to include it. Sorry :/.