You could try JUnique. It's an open source library doing exactly what you ask for. Import junique-1.0.4.jar
to your project as a library. It's just 10kb file.
It's manual neatly describes how to implement it on a project. For a JavaFX application, implementation would look something like this:
Make sure to import these classes to your main
import it.sauronsoftware.junique.AlreadyLockedException;
import it.sauronsoftware.junique.JUnique;
public static void main(String[] args) {
String appId = "myapplicationid";
boolean alreadyRunning;
try {
JUnique.acquireLock(appId);
alreadyRunning = false;
} catch (AlreadyLockedException e) {
alreadyRunning = true;
}
if (!alreadyRunning) {
launch(args); // <-- This the your default JavaFX start sequence
}else{ //This else is optional. Just to free up memory if you're calling the program from a terminal.
System.exit(1);
}
}