All other variables being constant, which is faster at inserting / deleting / modifying / anddoing lookups: sql server or mysql (you can choose any engine which is the fastest)
(leave the other databases out of the discussion)
We will not compare propriety functions that either sql server has only or mysql server has only.
For example, like say I have 8 million entries in a table in sql server and the same entries in the same table in mysql server.
Will finding for the 7997777th row be faster in sql server or mysql?
Another example, say I do an insert into a table in sql server vs the same insert in the same table in mysql?