I have a friends table
| id | requestor | requestee | status |
requestor and requestee are both userIds
I want to have a unique set of relationships so if id:1 requests to be friends with id:2 the visa versa would not be allowed.
I tried adding a unique constraint with the requestor and requestee columns, but that allowed 1 2 if 2 1 existed.
How else can I do this? is there some sort of flag when making a constraint to make it cover both combinations?
I am also open to structuring it differently/ adding new tables if it is the right way to accomplish this.
Many thanks