I am able to get the parent Connector with
MBeanServer mbs = ManagementFactory.getPlatformMBeanServer();
QueryExp qe = Query.match(Query.attr("port"), Query.value("443"));
ObjectName on = new ObjectName("*:type=Connector,*");
Set<ObjectName> objectNames = mbs.queryNames(on, qe);
and I don't want to read server.xml in case it is out of sync. How is one to get the SSLHostConfig ?