Any of the other questions are for Ubuntu only.
What I did: In the php ini I uncommented this line: extension=sqlite3 as well as the one defining the extension_dir as ext
In PATH I added the PHP installation folder, which includes the libsqlite3.dll
"php -m" in a shell still does not show up sqlite3 (or anything similar) and any PHP file using SQLite3 results in the classic: "Fatal error: Uncaught Error: Class "SQLite3" not found in [php file]"
All the tutorials online (the two for windows that google can find) just say it's working after these steps (or even after the first).