The costly is always a definition of impact.
Consider, you have following environment.
A web application with assuming a UI-transaction (user click) and causes a thread on the webserver. This thread is coupled to one connection/thread on the database
- 10 connections per 60000ms / 1min or better to say 0.167 connections/s
- 10 connections per 1000ms / 1sec => 10 connections/s
- 10 connections per 100ms / 0.1sec => 100 connections/s
- 10 connections per 10ms / 0.01sec => 1000 connections/s
I have worked in even bigger environments.
And believe me the more you exceed the 100 conn/s by 10^x factors the more pain you will feel without having a clean connection pool.
The more connections you generate in 1 second the higher latency you generate and the higher impact is it for the database. And the more bandwidth you will eat for recreating over and over a new "water pipeline" for dropping a few drops of water from one side to the other side.
Now getting back, if you have to access a existing connection from a connection pool it is a matter of micros or few ms to access the database connection. So considering one, it is no real impact at all.
If you have a network in between, it will grow to probably x10¹ to x10² ms to create a new connection.
Considering now the impact on your webserver, that each user blocks a thread, memory and network connection it will impact also your webserver load. Typically you run into webserver (e.g. revProxy apache + tomcat, or tomcat alone) thread pools issues on high load environments, if the connections get exhausted or they need too long time (10¹, 10² millis) to create
Now considering also the database.
If you have open connection, each connection is typically mapped to a thread on a DB. So the DB can use thread based caches to make prepared statements and to reuse pre-calculated access plan to make the accesses to data on database very fast.
You may loose this option if you have to recreate the connection over and over again.
But as said, if you are in up to 10 connections per second you shall not face any bigger issue without a connection pool, except the first additional delay to access the DB.
If you get into higher levels, you will have to manage the resources better and to avoid any useless IO-delay like recreating the connection.
Experience hints:
it does not cost you anything to use a connection pool. If you have issues with the connection pool, in all my previous performance tuning projects it was a matter of bad configuration.
You can configure
- a connection check to check the connection (use a real SQL to access a real db field). so on every new access the connection gets checked and if defective it gets kicked from the connection pool
- you can define a lifetime of a connections, so that you get new connection after a defined time
=> all this together ensure that even if your admins are doing crap and do not inform you (killing connection / threads on DB) the pool gets quickly rebuilt and the impact stays very low. Read the docs of the connection pool.
Is one connection pool better as the other?
A clear no, it is only getting a matter if you get into high end, or into distributed environments/clusters or into cloud based environments. If you have one connection pool already and it is still maintained, stick to it and become a pro on your connection pool settings.