I have a feeling you have not adequately explained why you are trying this strange topology.
Anyway, I will point out several things relating to MySQL/MariaDB.
- A Galera cluster already embodies multiple nodes (minimum of 3), but does not directly support "sharding". You can have multiple Galera clusters, one per "shard".
- As with my comment about Galera, other forms of MySQL/MariaDB can have replication between nodes of each shard.
- If you are thinking of having a server with all data, but replicate only parts to readonly Replicas, there are settings for replicate_do/ignore_database. I emphasize "readonly" because changes to these pseudo-shards cannot easily be sent back to the Primary server. (However see "multi-source replication")
- Sharding is used primarily when there is simply too much traffic to handle on a single server. Are you saying that the 3 tenants cannot coexist because of excessive writes? (Excessive reads can be handled by replication.)
A tentative solution:
Have all data on all servers. Use the same Galera cluster for all nodes.
Advantage: When "most" or all of the network is working all data is quickly replicated bidirectionally.
Potential disadvantage: If half or more of the nodes go down, you have to manually step in to get the cluster going again.
Likely solution for the 'disadvantage': "Weight" the nodes differently. Give a height weight to the 3 in HQ; give a much smaller (but non-zero) weight to each branch node. That way, most of the branches could go offline without losing the system as a whole.
But... I fear that an offline branch node will automatically become readonly.
Another plan:
Switch to NDB. The network is allowed to be fragile. Consistency is maintained by "eventual consistency" instead of the "[virtually] synchronous replication" of Galera+InnoDB.
NDB allows you to immediately write on any node. Then the write is sent to the other nodes. If there is a conflict one of the values is declared the "winner". You choose which algorithm for determining the winner. An easy-to-understand one is "whichever write was 'first'".