I do not completely agree with the last answer. The first time you accept an SSH key, you know nothing about the remote host, so automatically accepting it makes no difference.
What I would do is auto accept the key the first time you connect to a host. I've read that doing something like yes yes | ssh user@host
works, but it doesn't, because SSH does not read from stdin, but from a terminal.
What does work is to pass, that first time you connect, the following ssh option (it works for both scp and ssh:
scp -oStrictHostKeyChecking=no user@host1:file1 user@host2:file2
This command would add the key the first time you run it, but if, as Eric says, doing this once you have accepted the key is dangerous (man in the middle is uncool). If I were you I'd add it to a script that checked in ~/.ssh/known_hosts
if there's already a line for that host, in which case I wouldn't add that option. On the other hand, if there was no line, I'd do so ;).
If you are dealing with an encrypted version of known_hosts, try with
ssh-keygen -F hostname
Here's something I'm actually using (function receiving the following arguments: user, host, source_file)
deployToServer() {
echo "Deployng to $1@$2 from $3"
if [ -z "`cat ~/.ssh/known_hosts | grep $2`" ] && [ -z "`ssh-keygen -F $2`" ]
then
echo 'Auto accepting SSH key'
scp -oStrictHostKeyChecking=no $3* $1@$2:.
else
scp $3* $1@$2:.
fi
}
Hope this helped ;)