Are you familiar with any other programming language (like C etc)?
if you are, you should straight away start to get your hands dirty. no use investing more time reading. You can learn more by doing. All you need is to search for "c++ hello world" in google, I do it whenever I want to code in any language.
Websites:
http://www.cplusplus.com/doc/tutorial/
http://www.learncpp.com/
IDE:
I am not sure if you need an IDE. Visual Studio is the only IDE I have seen being used for C++ in industry. Eclipse has plugins for all popular languages.
Since you are just learning the language (I am assuming you are using Windows), I would suggested DevCpp.
Other tools:
If Windows: notepad++
If Linux: gedit & g++
Pitfalls:
learning C++ or java doesnt automatically make you good at object oriented programming (OOP). So please try to learn OOP concepts and apply them in these languages.