For the buffers/tabs storing/restoring parts of the question: I use elscreen and the way I manage storing/restoring the desktop session and the elscreen tab configuration is the following code in my .emacs file (the names used are self-explanatory and if the storing/restoring functions should not be executed every time emacs starts just comment out the lines with "(push #'elscreen-store kill-emacs-hook)" and "(elscreen-restore)"):
(defvar emacs-configuration-directory
"~/.emacs.d/"
"The directory where the emacs configuration files are stored.")
(defvar elscreen-tab-configuration-store-filename
(concat emacs-configuration-directory ".elscreen")
"The file where the elscreen tab configuration is stored.")
(defun elscreen-store ()
"Store the elscreen tab configuration."
(interactive)
(if (desktop-save emacs-configuration-directory)
(with-temp-file elscreen-tab-configuration-store-filename
(insert (prin1-to-string (elscreen-get-screen-to-name-alist))))))
(push #'elscreen-store kill-emacs-hook)
(defun elscreen-restore ()
"Restore the elscreen tab configuration."
(interactive)
(if (eq (type-of (desktop-read)) 'symbol)
(let ((screens (reverse
(read
(with-temp-buffer
(insert-file-contents elscreen-tab-configuration-store-filename)
(buffer-string))))))
(while screens
(setq screen (car (car screens)))
(setq buffers (split-string (cdr (car screens)) ":"))
(if (eq screen 0)
(switch-to-buffer (car buffers))
(elscreen-find-and-goto-by-buffer (car buffers) t t))
(while (cdr buffers)
(switch-to-buffer-other-window (car (cdr buffers)))
(setq buffers (cdr buffers)))
(setq screens (cdr screens))))))
(elscreen-restore)
EDIT:
I changed the "if (desktop-read)", in elscreen-restore, to "if (eq (type-of (desktop-read)) 'symbol)" because, if emacs is killed instead of being closed in the usual way, the .emacs.desktop.lock file is not deleted. Thus, if for any reason the desktop session cannot be restored, the return value of "(desktop-read)" is a "string", explaining the error, and not "nil", so the "if" does not fail as it should.