As fas as adding dates in JavaScipt my "DateExtensions" library does this well enough, I think. You can get it here:
http://depressedpress.com/javascript-extensions/dp_dateextensions/
Once refenced you can call "add()" as a method for any valid date and pass it any of many date parts (second, minutes, days, hours, etc). So assuming "curDate" is a valid JavaScript date object you can add 5 days like this:
newDate = curDate.add(5, "days");
Using a negative value will subtract:
newDate = curDate.add(-5, "days");
Once you get the date you want you can the use the library's dateFormat() method to display it like so:
curDate.dateFormat("MM/DD/YYYY");
There's full documentation at the link.
Integer Values for Day of Week
As for getting the integer value you want, it's actually easier that it looks (and you don't need an "if" just some math). The getDay() method of date returns the day of week with Sunday as "0" and Saturday as "6". So the week, from Sunday, would normally be:
0,1,2,3,4,5,6
First, you want to reverse that scale. That's easily done via subtraction by taking 7 (to total number of members of the set) from the value. This gives you this scale:
-7,-6,-5,-4,-3,-2,-1
We're getting closer. You want the first value to be zero as well. The simplest way (I think) to do this is to get the modulus (remainder) of the value by the total number of members. All this basically does is make "-7" a zero and leave the rest alone giving us this:
0,-6,-5,-4,-3,-2,-1
Almost done. Finally you don't want negative numbers so you need to use the Math.abs() method to eliminate the sign (get the absolute value) leaving us with our desired result:
0,6,5,4,3,2,1
For all the talk the acutual code is pretty compact:
Math.abs((cnt-7)%7)
Wrapping this into the original example gives us:
newDate = curDate.add(Math.abs((curDate.getDay()-7)%7), "days");
Server Vs Client
However take nnnnnn's comment to heart: in JavaScript the getDate() function gets the current date/time of the machine that it's running on - in the case of a web page that's the client, not the server.
If you actually meant the client time them you're set and done. If you really need the server time however that's annoying-to-impossible. If you own the server then it's actually not to hard to set up a rule that includes the current server in a cookie withing each fufilled request (you could then use my cookie library, also at the site above, to access the information!)
It's messier but depending on the server you might also be able to create an old-school server-side include that adds a bit of JavaScript to each page (preferably as a marked replace in the header) that hard-codes the date as a global variable.
You might also create a web service that returns the current server time but the client-overhead for that is insane compared to the data being delivered.
If the server's NOT yours (and you can't get the owner to provide the above) then the only real potential option is to do a straight http call and examine the HTTP "Date" header. Again however the overhead on this is immense compared to the return but it's really the only way. Any system like this would have to be very flexible however as any particular server might not return the date header or might not return it correctly.
Even if it does work understand that you might still not be getting the "server" time - or at least not the server you want. In a tiered architecture, for example an application server might render then page and hand it to a web server to return - you'd be getting the web server time, not the app server. Any number of appliances might also rewrite the headers (for example it's common to use dedicated SSL appliances to offload all the encryption work - these often re-write the headers themselves).
Sorry to get overly technical - JavaScript is definately one area where there's unfortunately rarely a "simple question". ;^)
Good Luck!