This is to add to Dabblernl's response.
Long story made short, VB6 never really had a general reference type. Being built on COM, the only reference type it has (Dim ... As Object) is one for COM-based (or COM styled) classes. The Variant type was only good at boxing other types.
As to why ByRef works with arrays ...
The evolution of many dialects of BASIC, including VB6, adopted/adapted the paradigm of FORTRAN when it came to subroutines and functions; namely, parameters are passed by address (hence, ByRef is the default), and functions return their results by value. Add to this that BASIC never really had the concept of an address or a reference: VB6 (and earlier versions) would simulate addresses with 32-bit (signed) integers and otherwise would cope (in strange ways) via peculiar rules of the DECLARE SUB/FUNCTION statement and the (shoe-horned) AddressOf operator and VarPtr/StrPtr functions.
Final note: Since VB6 classes are COM-style, VB6 has the SET statement. The reason for this is that without the SET, an l-value = r-value situation is an implied LET statement. COM supports the notion of a default property (with and without parameters); LET objA = objB
is interpreted as LET objA.DefaultPropOfA = objB.DefaultPropOfB
. SET, on the other hand, makes objA take on the reference to the same object that objB references.
The Visual Basic of .NET is a nice and powerful language, with far fewer shortcomings and warts than VB6. However, it does have big differences from its legacy cousin. These differences have made long time VB6 users grouchy, and I suspect it has made many VB.NET users confused when they're asked to deal with VB6 code.
BTW, a VB6 coder would deal with the array within a class issue in this way:
Public Property Get DaysOfWeek(ByVal index As Integer) As String
DaysOfWeek = m_strDaysOfWeek(index)
End Property
Public Property Let DaysOfWeek(ByVal index As Integer, ByRef value As String)
m_strDaysOfWeek(index) = value
End Property
That would allow syntax of strDay = clsDateTime.DaysOfWeek(1)
and clsDateTime.DaysOfWeek(2)="Tuesday"
to work as desired.