The supposed ethos of C++ is "what you use, you pay for". However, this can be quite debilitating due to exceptions and their pervasive use in the STL.
Before anybody says "just turn exceptions on", life is not so generous with the programming environments we must live in. Mine is kernel programming where the execution environment does not provide enough C++ runtime to unwind the stack, etc.
STL containers will throw allocation failure exceptions when they cannot reallocate storage for their underlying backing stores. When exceptions are not enabled in the environment, the program will crash rather mysteriously: I have seen implementations straight-up abort or just assume that the allocation worked even if it did not.
Many C ADT libraries that I have come across deal with this problem upfront by returning an error code or having the error as an output parameter.
What is the "best" C++ way of dealing with this problem?
To clarify
I do not want to use the standard library, I cannot. I am not asking "how do I do that which cannot be done". I am asking: "given a clean slate, how should the container library be built."