RBAR is an acronym for Row By Agonizing Row, coined by Sr. DBA Jeff Moden, or in his words: "RBAR is pronounced "ree-bar" and is a "Modenism" for "Row-By-Agonizing-Row"
In the world of relational databases, RBAR means processing data on a row by row bases - which is also known as procedural approach, and it is one of the worst thing to do in terms of performance.
SQL works best with a set based approach, meaning processing data in batches rather then in single rows.
Numerous blog posts by multiple bloggers have discussed this issue - even before the RBAR acronym was coined.