I feel your pain, however GUI toolkits manage their own windows and most of the time it is not possible to share or embed windows without using OS specific native APIs.
You could create an applet to show your swing window in a box / rectangle but Tkinter does not ship with a widget that can display webpages or applets. The reverse process is technically possible but I haven't seen any real-world practical examples.
If functionality is not required, your best bet is to capture the output of the window (Java example: Swing: Obtain Image of JFrame) and display your graph on Tkinter with
import Image, ImageTk
im = Image.open('file_name').convert2byte()
tkimage = ImageTk.PhotoImage(im)
Tkinter.Label(root, image=tkimage).pack()
On a side note:
It is kind of possible to access the toolkits in a reverse way with Jpype and Jtkinter but the difference between Tcl based Tkinter and Swing is still great and it will still not solve this problem.