This is a simplified example to illustrate the question:
class A {};
class B
{
B(A& a) : a(a) {}
A& a;
};
class C
{
C() : b(a) {}
A a;
B b;
};
So B is responsible for updating a part of C. I ran the code through lint and it whinged about the reference member: lint#1725. This talks about taking care over default copy and assignments which is fair enough, but default copy and assignment is also bad with pointers, so there's little advantage there.
I always try to use references where I can since naked pointers introduce uncertaintly about who is responsible for deleting that pointer. I prefer to embed objects by value but if I need a pointer, I use auto_ptr in the member data of the class that owns the pointer, and pass the object around as a reference.
I would generally only use a pointer in member data when the pointer could be null or could change. Are there any other reasons to prefer pointers over references for data members?
Is it true to say that an object containing a reference should not be assignable, since a reference should not be changed once initialised?