Problem Background: I have a 35K+ user members and growing fast. I am planning to migrate to Amazon SES service. Amazon SES has a criteria to reduce the quota or even terminate service based on bounce-back emails.
I send promotional emails to my members. But the fear is that there are email address which are no longer exists so a fair possibility that Amazon SES notice me and take action to reduce or terminate my service. I need to make sure I have valid email address which do not disturb SES.
Possible Solution: To cope this problem I am planning to do the following procedure for each email address;
Step1. Collect the MX record for the email domain.
Step2. telnet to that MX domain
Step3. Verify email address with the following pattern
EHLO my_domain_name
MAIL FROM:<my_valid_email@my_domain_name>
RCPT TO:<email_to_verify@my_user_email_domain>
I will verify the response after each command trigger such as email is valid if I receive 250 status after RCPT command
Now what are the possible precautions I should care about to be not marked as SPAM or rejected by the remote server???